{"id":286,"date":"2004-10-26T19:48:00","date_gmt":"2004-10-26T17:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/custom-deluxe.com\/2004\/10\/for_lack_of_a_b.html"},"modified":"2004-10-26T19:48:00","modified_gmt":"2004-10-26T17:48:00","slug":"for_lack_of_a_b","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/custom-deluxe.com\/index.php\/2004\/10\/26\/for_lack_of_a_b\/","title":{"rendered":"for lack of a better title"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Oh dear, I just can&#8217;t seem to keep up with this thing.  It occurs to me that this is not so much because my activity level is high as that I can&#8217;t seem to keep my brain focused on a single task (even one so trivial as posting nonsense to my House of Self-Indulgence) for more than 15 minutes.  So I&#8217;d better type fast.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, quite a lot&#8217;s been going on.  Two weekends ago, I attended the spectacular Big Gay Wedding of my dear friends Greg and David, in Memphis.  Now, when I tell people this, they&#8217;re initially unsurprised to hear that I was in a gay wedding &#8211; but then, when I get to the part about it having taken place in Memphis, a look of bewilderment comes across their dear faces.  Memphis?  Surely not.  I mean, if San Fran couldn&#8217;t keep gay unions legal, how is it possible that this should come about in the borderline  baptist belt, yea, so close to the snake-handling counties of Arkansas?  Much as I hate to disappoint, the marriage is not in fact legal, but when have we cared about the legality of our actions, anyway?  It was a beautiful ceremony, presided over by the inimitable and lovely organic farmer\/fairy\/hippie preacher Larry Leonard (whose ripe green tomatoes are a delectable treat, should you ever find yourself down his way), attended by scores of friends and family, a reunion of folk who hadn&#8217;t seen one another in over a decade and a festival of bubbly-consumption worthy of the coming together of a new and improved circle of friends and relatives.  I had a fabulous time, and while I am tempted to promise photos in the near future, we all know how awful I am about that (I can&#8217;t even seem to fix the stylesheets in the gallery, for crying out loud), I won&#8217;t get your hopes up.  You&#8217;ll just have to take my word for it.<\/p>\n<p>Since I&#8217;ve been back, it&#8217;s been a whirlwind of social and cultural activity &#8211; between dinners and outings with friends, I managed to have the fullest day of theatrical experiences I&#8217;ve had since college.  Last Wednesday afternoon, a friend and I attended a dress rehearsal of A\u00efda at the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lyricopera.org\" title=\"chicago lyric opera\" target=\"_blank\">Lyric<\/a>.  Just under four hours and an execution\/suicide later, we emerged blinking into the twilight, in dire need of a drink.  We had just enough time for a few quick ones with good old Pat at Nick &#038; Tony&#8217;s before another friend came to fetch me for the evening&#8217;s production: Who&#8217;s Afraid of Virginia Woolf at the Court Theatre.  Now, this is not what anyone would call a feel-good show &#8211; in fact, it&#8217;s more or less witnessing a three and a half hour act of psychological terrorism.  But I&#8217;m here to tell you, it was amazing.  Utterly worth it.  I said that evening, and have maintained since, that it is the single best production I&#8217;ve seen in ten years in Chicago.  Huge kudos to the cast and crew and director, and also high praise to the scene design.  I am almost tempted to rattle on about it at length the way I normally do about productions that I love, but you might leave me and never come back.  Perhaps I&#8217;ll revisit this at some point &#8211; my only regret is that I didn&#8217;t get a review up early enough to encourage everyone in town to see the show: it closed on Sunday.  <\/p>\n<p>Friday saw another charmed dinner party at my house.  Yes, I&#8217;m trying to cram in as many intimate gatherings as I possibly can before I quit the country, and even though from time to time I look around the room and get all misty, they are always such a splendid time.  The menu for this one was Spicy Corn Chowder, followed by Chili-Lime Marinated Pork Tenderloin and Lime-Cayenne infused Shrimp on a bed of Cheddar\/Chipotle Mashed Potato, with French Green Beans and a few cherry tomatoes for color.  For dessert, one guest supplied fresh strawberries with a brown sugar-sour cream dip, and another gallantly arrived hours early to bake a wonderful apple pie.  Yea verily, we were well-fed.  Well-boozed, too, but that&#8217;s another story.  I&#8217;ve still got a can of wine (!) in my fridge if anybody&#8217;s interested.  <\/p>\n<p>So what have I got that&#8217;s amusing and witty and clever?  It shames me to say that I&#8217;m coming up snake eyes today, folks.  Perhaps this evening&#8217;s outing to the north side will supply me with some comic relief, or at least some regrettable fashion, to share with you, but for now you&#8217;ll just have to make due with the facts.  <\/p>\n<p>At least I&#8217;ve written something.  My guilt is partially assuaged.<\/p>\n<p>Oh yeah, and if Bush wins next Tuesday, I&#8217;m leaving the country.  Wait a minute&#8230;  Well, ok.  But vote anyway, would you?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Oh dear, I just can&#8217;t seem to keep up with this thing. 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